I am writing to formally raise a serious concern regarding the recent communication I received about an “outstanding membership fee.”
The email I originally received earlier last year was misleading. Important information about contract renewal and the required notice period for cancellation was buried at the very end of the message, while the subject line and main content focused almost entirely on promotional material. This presentation concealed the critical terms, and as a result, I was not aware that the membership would renew automatically or that 30 days’ notice was required for cancellation.
Once I became aware of the renewal terms, I responded immediately and gave notice in accordance with the stated 30-day requirement. In good faith, I am willing to pay for one month beyond my notice period, despite not using the service. However, I strongly dispute your demand for payment for three months (and now apparently six months) beyond my cancellation date.
In addition, I did not receive any prior notification of an “outstanding balance” or any payment deadlines before receiving the recent demand. I also note that when I contacted your claims department in June to query why I had been sent a six-month payment demand, I was told the matter had been referred to an external debt collection agency and that my questions would no longer be answered.
This approach — failing to communicate clearly, refusing to explain charges, and escalating to debt collection without resolving legitimate disputes — is not only deeply unfair, it risks breaching New Zealand consumer protection laws. Under the Fair Trading Act and the Consumer Guarantees Act, businesses are required to act in a manner that is not misleading or deceptive and to provide services with reasonable care and skill.
I therefore request:
1. A written explanation of why I am being charged for more than 30 days after my cancellation notice.
2. A withdrawal of any charges beyond the one month I have already offered to pay.
3. Written confirmation that my account will not be pursued further by debt collectors.
If this matter is not resolved promptly, I will have no choice but to escalate it to the Commerce Commission, the Disputes Tribunal, and my local Citizens Advice Bureau.
In my view, this is unfair and not how customers should be treated. Clear, transparent communication should be standard practice, and payment demands should be backed by valid, explained charges. I hope others read this before signing up.
I have been unable to login on the New Zealand site. Tried to contact the company using the contact details provided only to find they do not exist. I feel this company is a scam.
This site has no way you can communicate with the site manager so you can't delete your profile once you make even when you like to remove and leave. Utterly unacceptable level of poor quality.
Very expensive
They kept sending me cv’s of people and when I said I would meet them they said they didn’t don’t want to meet me
Talked to one guy they said loves to travel go to cafes all rubbish
He wanted me to go to his flat twice a week for a booty call as he was wheel chair bound
Met another he was a real nutter
Obviously had problems
Asked for money back as they didn’t live up to their promises
Got 1/2 my money back
I don’t believe they have enough people on their database and wonder if all of the men they sent me don’t don’t exist
Took me a week or so to notice on the profile the little heart between the photo and the name. If you click on that it says - "Physical contact not possible". You will discover it is on every profile. There is no chance of finding a woman - dont know about the womans chances of finding men, not great I suspect. Should have zero stars
They are scammers! Their $35 one month membership turned out to be $200! They just take the money from your account! When I try and cancel my membership I am not allowed to!!!! I have tried to email them so many times but no response! No contact number either! Their site should be taken down!!!
I have been on this site for 4 months, and have had extensive conversations with 12 ladies, after their very believable invitations. Im still where l started, and still unhappy and they deleted my profile after l added to it. Be very aware of the blue heart, l should have read reviews before, they all have them. I have spent over $450+ and also got scamed but resolved for another $250. Its when they start asking question followed by more and more that seem so petty but believable, then when you try to get a finish you will get another question. DONT BOTHER. Be aware other sites are connected to this site also.
Pros Theres lots of ladies that want some sexual resolve. An unbeavable number.
Cons Every female profile seems to have a heart, its unbeleavable.
I signed up to find myself with over thousands of young girls chatting me up and leading me on, after the first thousands of young people girls and women I realized that I was never going to ever meet any body from around here where I live, so I thought why don't I have a bit of fun so I did make up some messages and did the first message site free-be and sent the first Ctrl V to thousands of girls etc and in twenty-five minutes I got thousands of replies and in three-days the messages went through the roof so then I left the site and and they just keeped coming for mothes after.
Its a scam it explains in its Terms & conditions at the bottom of the page it say based on your profiles yourself. This is completely up to you. oursercetcrush.com is designed for pleasure and entertainment. quote this site contains fictive profiles in others words fake profiles and are marked with a heart icon and are for entertainment purposes only. Physical contact with these profiles is not possible. We strongly advise you to read our terms and conditions before using our services. what a waste of my money so there you go people it a scam designed to take your money rip off
i LIive in a small town. I never realised there were so many women, married and single who just keep sending messages. They are designed for you to respond and then the endless chat starts. Each message costs you money. So the woman(if they are) lead you into endless chat. So I believe this is an out and out scam. Must be better sites elsewhere. Lot of fun reading the messages though.
Pros I believe the vast majority of the women on here are fake.
Obviously from the same stable of online dating agencies that has no interest in providing a genuine service other than to rip off gullible men. The whole site scream�¢ï¿½ï¿½s unsophisticated scam. If you�¢ï¿½ï¿½re bored it can be hilarious reading the garbage messages. What I really want to know is when is someone going to send a SWAT team in and cuff and waterboard these imposters. Better still , �¢ï¿½ï¿½ hey Netflix do a docuseries about these clowns being hounded and exposed�¢ï¿½ï¿½
Obviously from the same stable of online dating agencies that has no interest in providing a genuine service other than to rip off gullible men. The whole site scream�s unsophisticated scam. If you�re bored it can be hilarious reading the garbage messages. What I really want to know is when is someone going to send a SWAT team in and cuff and waterboard these imposters. Better still , � hey Netflix do a docuseries about these clowns being hounded and exposed�
What a scam 10 months ,no meets all ladies want is talk ,promised meetings never happen
hearts indicate fictitious characters , all ladies have hearts on there photos, so all characters fictitious
Cons all ladies characters are listed but meetings are not able to happen.
This site has several other sister sites, kiwiflirting.com being one such site. 99.9 percent fake. The money you pay through a third company is funding these frauds to make more fake profiles everyday. At last count some 600,000 profiles, all fake. When you compare sites they all lead to a Russian agency that uses models. Avoid at all costs
I was really in two minds if I wanted to fork out to chat on here, but I'm glad I did! I started chatting with a woman called Ronnie from Welly and we got on real good. Within a couple of weeks chatting on the site we decided we'd just meet up and I travelled down to her from Hamz. I can honestly say she was primo! I didn't think I'd meet someone like her on there but It brilliant. I've come off the site now though, me and Ronnie are going to just stay as we are and go with the flow.
Pros I was only on about a couple of weeks before I started chatting to Ronnie. It didn't cost heaps, and we both see the benefit of meeting someone online.
Cons I didn't like the limitation on message length, but that's about it really.
I have been approached by about 25 women. The conversations always start off sexually explicit, but quickly become coy and shy. When I try to arrange a meetup, they all prefer to stay on the site and chat. Each message costs $2. I have never been able to arrange a meetup or get any other contact info. This seems to be one of those sites that the women's profiles are fake and there is no chance of meeting.
Pros Lots of good looking women with sexy profiles and some with nude pictures
I have been approached by about 25 women. The conversations always start off very sexually explicit and enticing, but quickly become coy and shy. When I try to arrange a meetup, they all prefer to stay on the site and chat. Each message costs $2. I have never been able to arrange a meetup or get any other contact info. This seems to be one of those sites that the women's profiles are fake and there is no chance of meeting.
Pros Lots of good looking women with sexy profiles and some with nude pictures
Having been a member for only a week, I have been approached by about 25 women. The conversations always start off very sexually explicit and enticing, but quickly become coy and shy. When I try to arrange a meetup or some other form of contact, they all prefer to stay on the site and chat for a while. Each chat message costs approximately $2. I have never been able to arrange a meetup or get any other contact info. This seems to be one of those sites that the women's profiles are fake and there is no chance of meeting.
Pros Lots of good looking women with sexy profiles and some with nude pictures
as per the one other comment on here, this site is a total scam and agree wholeheartedly with the previous - I would garuntee NO one has ever met anybody in person via this site - woman making provocatve offers and then endless messaging - do not know there location even though a province listed, they will not even know a local town/city - it is absolute scamming BS from the Netherlands
The service promises a lot, as can been seen on what they say on their website. When you meet the agents, they will convince you that they are the best in what they do. The truth is that they are only as good as their database, which is hugely limited. The matches they have recommended me are disappointing. Their refund policy is full proof, so which means you cannot back out and get your money back once signed on. It is not cheap. I hugely regret signing on. The money can be used for other more worthy causes/other dating services which are not so pricey, and not making this business owner richer. I have met several people who happened to use this service and they are also not happy with what they paid for. It may work for some people in some age groups, but certainly not majority. I would not recommend this service, and would advise you to think twice before signing on. Join at your own risk.
Pros N/A
Cons Prey on lonely hearts
Expensive for low/nil returns
Cannot get your money back if unhappy with service
Matches not as selective as they claim
I believe the site is answered by over 90% scammers. But I am in the 10% and I actually physically met a lady whom I had sex with the same night. We hid in her large roomy closet from her 3 sleepy children.
Pros There ARE some real people on here. They have Happy Hour to allow you to communicate. They have free chat groups.
Cons About 95% that answer are scammers, especially those that call you Babe or Baby withOUT even viewing your profile !!!
Single
Review about NZDatingI like red wine
Pros
Stylist
Cons
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Unreasonable payment demanding
Review about Academic SinglesI am writing to formally raise a serious concern regarding the recent communication I received about an “outstanding membership fee.”
The email I originally received earlier last year was misleading. Important information about contract renewal and the required notice period for cancellation was buried at the very end of the message, while the subject line and main content focused almost entirely on promotional material. This presentation concealed the critical terms, and as a result, I was not aware that the membership would renew automatically or that 30 days’ notice was required for cancellation.
Once I became aware of the renewal terms, I responded immediately and gave notice in accordance with the stated 30-day requirement. In good faith, I am willing to pay for one month beyond my notice period, despite not using the service. However, I strongly dispute your demand for payment for three months (and now apparently six months) beyond my cancellation date.
In addition, I did not receive any prior notification of an “outstanding balance” or any payment deadlines before receiving the recent demand. I also note that when I contacted your claims department in June to query why I had been sent a six-month payment demand, I was told the matter had been referred to an external debt collection agency and that my questions would no longer be answered.
This approach — failing to communicate clearly, refusing to explain charges, and escalating to debt collection without resolving legitimate disputes — is not only deeply unfair, it risks breaching New Zealand consumer protection laws. Under the Fair Trading Act and the Consumer Guarantees Act, businesses are required to act in a manner that is not misleading or deceptive and to provide services with reasonable care and skill.
I therefore request:
1. A written explanation of why I am being charged for more than 30 days after my cancellation notice.
2. A withdrawal of any charges beyond the one month I have already offered to pay.
3. Written confirmation that my account will not be pursued further by debt collectors.
If this matter is not resolved promptly, I will have no choice but to escalate it to the Commerce Commission, the Disputes Tribunal, and my local Citizens Advice Bureau.
In my view, this is unfair and not how customers should be treated. Clear, transparent communication should be standard practice, and payment demands should be backed by valid, explained charges. I hope others read this before signing up.
Pros
None
Cons
Terrible customer service
fake sight don't waist your .
Review about Lov.netbots bots and more bots.
Stop subscription
Review about FlirtsenzalimitiI want to stop paying for flirtsenzali
Company contact details do not
Review about MatchFinderI have been unable to login on the New Zealand site. Tried to contact the company using the contact details provided only to find they do not exist. I feel this company is a scam.
Pros
No pros at all
Cons
Site is a scam.
Unreliable site
Review about MatchFinderThis site has no way you can communicate with the site manager so you can't delete your profile once you make even when you like to remove and leave. Utterly unacceptable level of poor quality.
No reviews
Review about NZShemalesNo experience
Pros
I don't know my first time I never meet anyone
Cons
Because I don't meet any one
Useless
Review about TwoscompanyVery expensive
They kept sending me cv’s of people and when I said I would meet them they said they didn’t don’t want to meet me
Talked to one guy they said loves to travel go to cafes all rubbish
He wanted me to go to his flat twice a week for a booty call as he was wheel chair bound
Met another he was a real nutter
Obviously had problems
Asked for money back as they didn’t live up to their promises
Got 1/2 my money back
I don’t believe they have enough people on their database and wonder if all of the men they sent me don’t don’t exist
Pros
Nothing
Cons
Too expensive
No connections that were good
Absolute Scam
Review about My Flirty SecretsTook me a week or so to notice on the profile the little heart between the photo and the name. If you click on that it says - "Physical contact not possible". You will discover it is on every profile. There is no chance of finding a woman - dont know about the womans chances of finding men, not great I suspect. Should have zero stars
Cons
Not real
Be2 Scam!!!!
Review about Be2.co.nzThey are scammers! Their $35 one month membership turned out to be $200! They just take the money from your account! When I try and cancel my membership I am not allowed to!!!! I have tried to email them so many times but no response! No contact number either! Their site should be taken down!!!
Pros
Zero
Cons
Absolutele scam!!!
The site will strip your funds
Review about Our Secret CrushI have been on this site for 4 months, and have had extensive conversations with 12 ladies, after their very believable invitations. Im still where l started, and still unhappy and they deleted my profile after l added to it. Be very aware of the blue heart, l should have read reviews before, they all have them. I have spent over $450+ and also got scamed but resolved for another $250. Its when they start asking question followed by more and more that seem so petty but believable, then when you try to get a finish you will get another question. DONT BOTHER. Be aware other sites are connected to this site also.
Pros
Theres lots of ladies that want some sexual resolve. An unbeavable number.
Cons
Every female profile seems to have a heart, its unbeleavable.
maidim $3,780.in twenty mints
Review about MaoriflirtI signed up to find myself with over thousands of young girls chatting me up and leading me on, after the first thousands of young people girls and women I realized that I was never going to ever meet any body from around here where I live, so I thought why don't I have a bit of fun so I did make up some messages and did the first message site free-be and sent the first Ctrl V to thousands of girls etc and in twenty-five minutes I got thousands of replies and in three-days the messages went through the roof so then I left the site and and they just keeped coming for mothes after.
Cons
the websit is a big con
oursecretcrush.com scam ripoff
Review about Our Secret CrushIts a scam it explains in its Terms & conditions at the bottom of the page it say based on your profiles yourself. This is completely up to you. oursercetcrush.com is designed for pleasure and entertainment. quote this site contains fictive profiles in others words fake profiles and are marked with a heart icon and are for entertainment purposes only. Physical contact with these profiles is not possible. We strongly advise you to read our terms and conditions before using our services. what a waste of my money so there you go people it a scam designed to take your money rip off
I believe this site is a scam
Review about Our Secret Crushi LIive in a small town. I never realised there were so many women, married and single who just keep sending messages. They are designed for you to respond and then the endless chat starts. Each message costs you money. So the woman(if they are) lead you into endless chat. So I believe this is an out and out scam. Must be better sites elsewhere. Lot of fun reading the messages though.
Pros
I believe the vast majority of the women on here are fake.
Cons
Zero,good for a laugh.
Paint me sceptical?!
Review about MaoriflirtObviously from the same stable of online dating agencies that has no interest in providing a genuine service other than to rip off gullible men. The whole site scream�¢ï¿½ï¿½s unsophisticated scam. If you�¢ï¿½ï¿½re bored it can be hilarious reading the garbage messages. What I really want to know is when is someone going to send a SWAT team in and cuff and waterboard these imposters. Better still , �¢ï¿½ï¿½ hey Netflix do a docuseries about these clowns being hounded and exposed�¢ï¿½ï¿½
Pros
No Maori to be seen
Cons
No Maori to be seen
Paint me sceptical?!
Review about MaoriflirtObviously from the same stable of online dating agencies that has no interest in providing a genuine service other than to rip off gullible men. The whole site scream�s unsophisticated scam. If you�re bored it can be hilarious reading the garbage messages. What I really want to know is when is someone going to send a SWAT team in and cuff and waterboard these imposters. Better still , � hey Netflix do a docuseries about these clowns being hounded and exposed�
Pros
No Maori to be seen
Cons
No Maori to be seen
What a scam
Review about My Flirty SecretsWhat a scam 10 months ,no meets all ladies want is talk ,promised meetings never happen
hearts indicate fictitious characters , all ladies have hearts on there photos, so all characters fictitious
Cons
all ladies characters are listed but meetings are not able to happen.
Heapsofwoman
Review about HeapsOfWomenThis site has several other sister sites, kiwiflirting.com being one such site. 99.9 percent fake. The money you pay through a third company is funding these frauds to make more fake profiles everyday. At last count some 600,000 profiles, all fake. When you compare sites they all lead to a Russian agency that uses models. Avoid at all costs
Pros
None
Cons
The whole setup is a con
Meet up
Review about My Flirt SecretsI was really in two minds if I wanted to fork out to chat on here, but I'm glad I did! I started chatting with a woman called Ronnie from Welly and we got on real good. Within a couple of weeks chatting on the site we decided we'd just meet up and I travelled down to her from Hamz. I can honestly say she was primo! I didn't think I'd meet someone like her on there but It brilliant. I've come off the site now though, me and Ronnie are going to just stay as we are and go with the flow.
Pros
I was only on about a couple of weeks before I started chatting to Ronnie. It didn't cost heaps, and we both see the benefit of meeting someone online.
Cons
I didn't like the limitation on message length, but that's about it really.
Not possible to meet women - possibly scam site
Review about Naughty Mature ContactI have been approached by about 25 women. The conversations always start off sexually explicit, but quickly become coy and shy. When I try to arrange a meetup, they all prefer to stay on the site and chat. Each message costs $2. I have never been able to arrange a meetup or get any other contact info. This seems to be one of those sites that the women's profiles are fake and there is no chance of meeting.
Pros
Lots of good looking women with sexy profiles and some with nude pictures
Cons
All fake
Not possible to meet women - possibly scam site
Review about Naughty Mature ContactI have been approached by about 25 women. The conversations always start off very sexually explicit and enticing, but quickly become coy and shy. When I try to arrange a meetup, they all prefer to stay on the site and chat. Each message costs $2. I have never been able to arrange a meetup or get any other contact info. This seems to be one of those sites that the women's profiles are fake and there is no chance of meeting.
Pros
Lots of good looking women with sexy profiles and some with nude pictures
Cons
All fake
Not possible to meet women - possibly scam site
Review about Naughty Mature ContactHaving been a member for only a week, I have been approached by about 25 women. The conversations always start off very sexually explicit and enticing, but quickly become coy and shy. When I try to arrange a meetup or some other form of contact, they all prefer to stay on the site and chat for a while. Each chat message costs approximately $2. I have never been able to arrange a meetup or get any other contact info. This seems to be one of those sites that the women's profiles are fake and there is no chance of meeting.
Pros
Lots of good looking women with sexy profiles and some with nude pictures
Cons
All fake
BS CON SITE
Review about MatureFlirtContactas per the one other comment on here, this site is a total scam and agree wholeheartedly with the previous - I would garuntee NO one has ever met anybody in person via this site - woman making provocatve offers and then endless messaging - do not know there location even though a province listed, they will not even know a local town/city - it is absolute scamming BS from the Netherlands
Pros
there isnt any
Cons
SCAM 100000%
Think twice before paying for the service
Review about TwoscompanyThe service promises a lot, as can been seen on what they say on their website. When you meet the agents, they will convince you that they are the best in what they do. The truth is that they are only as good as their database, which is hugely limited. The matches they have recommended me are disappointing. Their refund policy is full proof, so which means you cannot back out and get your money back once signed on. It is not cheap. I hugely regret signing on. The money can be used for other more worthy causes/other dating services which are not so pricey, and not making this business owner richer. I have met several people who happened to use this service and they are also not happy with what they paid for. It may work for some people in some age groups, but certainly not majority. I would not recommend this service, and would advise you to think twice before signing on. Join at your own risk.
Pros
N/A
Cons
Prey on lonely hearts
Expensive for low/nil returns
Cannot get your money back if unhappy with service
Matches not as selective as they claim
Mostly scammers. Maybe some legitimate
Review about Anal Fuck BuddyI believe the site is answered by over 90% scammers. But I am in the 10% and I actually physically met a lady whom I had sex with the same night. We hid in her large roomy closet from her 3 sleepy children.
Pros
There ARE some real people on here. They have Happy Hour to allow you to communicate. They have free chat groups.
Cons
About 95% that answer are scammers, especially those that call you Babe or Baby withOUT even viewing your profile !!!